"I think every woman at one point or another in their life has been called a bitch. For a long time I had a real problem with that word, I didn’t like it and I thought it was derogatory. But I’ve gotten to a place now where I’ve made a lot of peace with it. It’s been so overused and made to seem so derogatory towards woman that I’ve adapted it into an empowering feeling for myself. If I’m a bitch then I’m a bitch, if that’s what an assertive woman is to you. So I’ve sort of adapted it as a badge of honor."



oberons-puck asked:


I have to come clean and say that I googled “what constitutes a prime number?” before answering this. Thanks, homeschooling. 

  • 2.Kissed a boy? Yes. And I liked it.
  • 3.Had sex in public? Already answered.
  • 5.What does your URL mean? Already answered.
  • 7.Do you have any nicknames? Already answered.
  • 11.Soup or salad? SOUP FOR DAYZ
  • 13.Go out drinking? I do.
  • 17.Have you had sex today? No. No I have not. 
  • 19.The relationship between you and the person you last texted? Boyfriend/Ladyfriend
  • 23.The last time you felt broken? Last summer after my accident — not just physically.
  • 29.Do you dance in the car? Already answered.
  • 31.Ever used a bow and arrow? Negative.
  • 37.Do you believe in ghosts? Some days.
  • 41.Wear a bath robe? Yup
  • 43.Do you want to get married? If the relationship is right, sure. But I’m not hankerin’ for marriage. 
  • 47.what makes a great relationship? Understanding, patience, and love. And the knowledge that you are TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE who help make the other better, not 2 halves of a whole. 
  • 53.Piercings OR no piercings? I’m down with em. Excessive piercings aren’t quite my style, but you do you. 

keeboch asked:

I'd love a keeboch playlist :)

You’ve got it! Link here.

  • Kaboom - Lady Gaga feat. Kalenna
  • Early Mornin’ - Britney Spears
  • Early Winter - Gwen Stefani
  • Baby - Glee (Sam and Artie, to be specific)
  • O Come All Ye Faithful - Pomplamoose
  • C’est la Vie - B*Witched (OH HELL YEAH)
  • Hadlock Padlock - Kimya Dawson

Anonymous asked:

3, 7, 16, 29, 52
  • 3.Had sex in public? Not like, in front of people… but yes, I have. I can think of one time in particular (in the dugout of a baseball field at a park). 
  • 7.Do you have any nicknames? Tiff, Tdawg (yup), my sisters call me Tugg. 
  • 16.Do any hard drugs? Nah, dawg. 
  • 29.Do you dance in the car? Oh hell yeah.
  • 52.Straight edge OR non-straight edge? Non-straight edge. 


soulsegway requested some show pictures.

These are from the two (HUGE) shows that I SM’d this summer: 

Crazy for You at The Orlando Repertory Theatre.
Photography by Michael Cairns
Scenic design by Cindy White
Costume design by Mandy Swing
Lighting design by Dave Upton

Big Fish at St. Luke’s United Methodist Church
Directed by steveonstage (myprince)
Photography by Michael Lowe
Scenic design by John Roberts
Costume design by Molly Walz and AJ Garcia
Lighting design by Jim Ohrberg


We did it!

thankyoufive has surpassed 1,500 followers!

Yay! Thanks to all the new people for jumping in. Thanks to all of the people who have been around forever for sticking it out. 

In order to celebrate/for funsies, I’m going to make anyone who sends me a message (off anon) a Spotify playlist based on your url or your first name — dealer’s choice. First song that comes up in my library, no duplicates for repeat letters (fingers crossed).

You have until noon tomorrow (Mon. 9/1) to submit!

My music library is chaotic and rarely updated place. You’ve been warned. 

levianity asked:

Multiples of 5!

Bless you, you beautiful, rule-breaking moth.

  • 5.What does your URL mean? It means you heard me when I called “5 minutes to _____”. Or that you’re just repeating what everyone around you is yelling. 
  • 10.Dyed your hair? Oh yes. I’m about due to dye it again, actually.
  • 15.Smoke weed? If the opportunity presents itself. 
  • 20.Has anyone ever told you you have pretty eyes? Yes ma’am
  • 25.Do you have a Boyfriend/Girlfriend? I do! He’s the best!
  • 30.Where were you yesterday? I was in Deland for a production meeting, then I was at my apartment, then I was at Publix, and then I was at the aforementioned boyfriend’s house.
  • 35.Favorite type of fruit pie? Apple x100000
  • 45.How many relationships have you had? Several… is it tacky to count? I’m by myself so I’m going to count. 10 actually defined boyfriend/girlfriend relationships (including my current one). But really only 2 (3 including this one) that I would actually qualify as a functioning, [more or less] adult relationship.
  • 50.Religious OR non-religious? Non-religious. Superstitious, though. Some might say they’re the same.
  • 55.Quiet stay-at-home type OR party type? 9 days out of 10, quiet stay-at-home. Occasionally I’ll feel like hitting up a party. 

No limit

  • 1.Kissed a girl?
  • 2.Kissed a boy?
  • 3.Had sex in public?
  • 4.What’s your religion?
  • 5.What does your URL mean?
  • 6.Reason you joined tumblr?
  • 7.Do you have any nicknames?
  • 8.Do you like bubble bath?
  • 9.Kissed in the rain?
  • 10.Dyed your hair?
  • 11.Soup or salad?
  • 12.Vegetable or meat?
  • 13.Go out drinking?
  • 14.Smoke cigarettes?
  • 15.Smoke weed?
  • 16.Do any hard drugs?
  • 17.Have you had sex today?
  • 18.Have you ever fallen asleep in someones arms?
  • 19.The relationship between you and the person you last texted?
  • 20.Has anyone ever told you you have pretty eyes?
  • 21.Skipped doing homework to play a video game?
  • 22.Tried to commit suicide?
  • 23.The last time you felt broken?
  • 24.Had to lie to EVERYONE about how you felt?
  • 25.Do you have a Boyfriend/Girlfriend?
  • 26.Do you have Long hair OR short hair?
  • 27.First thing you notice to a guy/girl?
  • 28.Do you sing in the shower?
  • 29.Do you dance in the car?
  • 30.Where were you yesterday?
  • 31.Ever used a bow and arrow?
  • 32.Last time you got a portrait taken by a photographer?
  • 33.Do you think musicals are cheesy?
  • 34.Is Christmas stressful?
  • 35.Favorite type of fruit pie?
  • 36.Occupations you wanted to be when you were a kid?
  • 37.Do you believe in ghosts?
  • 38.Ever have a Deja-vu feeling?
  • 39.Take a vitamin daily?
  • 40.Wear slippers?
  • 41.Wear a bath robe?
  • 42.What do you wear to bed?
  • 43.Do you want to get married?
  • 44.Can you curl your tongue?
  • Relationship preference:
  • 45.How many relationships have you had?
  • 46.How can I win your heart?
  • 47.what makes a great relationship?
  • 48.Shy OR open?
  • 50.Religious OR non-religious?
  • 51.Caring OR non-restricting of you?
  • 52.Straight edge OR non-straight edge?
  • 53.Piercings OR no piercings?
  • 54.Tattoos OR no tattoos?
  • 55.Quiet stay-at-home type OR party type?
  • ask me these, please? : )

Reminder: You are under no obligation to look pretty.



Not when you are laying around the house, not when you go to the grocery store, not when you sit in a classroom, not when you go to the gym. You are never obligated to get dressed up just so you are pretty for others.

Pretty is not the rent you pay to exist in the world as a woman. 

That last line. Wow.